What a year 2016 was. As we welcome the New Year, it is important to take stock of 2016 and reflect on what we must do right in 2017. No doubts 2016 was a difficult year for some of us – nonetheless, I urge you not to dwell on the negatives and forget all the positive things that might have happened. For what it’s worth, you’re alive, hale and hearty to see 2017. Be grateful!
Because I am a perpetual optimist, I assumed everything will go along fine and said to myself not to set any goals for 2016 – Whatever happens happens. That was my first and biggest mistake of 2016. When you don’t set goals, you absolutely have no drive or zeal to achieve anything. You literally set yourself up for failure! I learnt the hard way. I felt unaccomplished, I had no achievements to be proud of and no satisfaction in my life. Goals gives you a sense of direction and you need that direction to get you to where you want to be. Don’t be like Tega of 2016, set some audacious goals for 2017 – focus and channel your potential and abilities into achieving them before the end of the year.
This 10 questions will help you reflect on different aspect of 2016 and get you prepared for 2017. Write your answers out and think them through; if possible discuss about them with a friend or partner.
- If you have to describe 2016 in 3 words, what will they be?
- What single achievement are you most proud of?
- What, or who, are you most thankful for?
- What was the most important lesson you learnt in 2016?
- What one thing would you do differently and why?
- What is your number one goal for 2017?
- What skills do you want to learn, improve or master?
- Which personal quality do you want to develop or strengthen?
- What do you want your everyday life to be like?
- Which habits do you want to change, cultivate or get rid of?
Enough of the advice, I believe we are all set and ready to take 2017 head on. It’s gonna be a great year. Trust me!
Best of everything in 2016
Moments: My best moments of 2016 was my trip to Nigeria – Celebrating my birthday, seeing my friends and my dad after almost 3 years. Another moment was relaunching my blog.
Best quote: “You’re capable of more than others expect of you – even beyond your own most extravagant dreams”
Best decision: Rethink my blog vision and relaunch the blog
Best people: Millicent, Tolu, Rotimi, Allen, Timi, Cherie
Best place I visited: Dubai Miracle Garden
Nigerian music: Quiet a few – Falz – soft work, Adekunle goal – Ready, Ycee – Omo Alhaji, Run town – Mad over you and Mochedda – let me love you.
Foreign music: Into you – Ariana Grande
Gospel music: Onise Iyanu – Nathaniel Bassey
Fashion trend: Chokers
Book: Why men marry bitches and why men love bitches – Sherry Argov
YouTube channel: Patricia Bright
Web series: This is it (Every young couple should watch this)
Best Preacher: Joel Osteen
Movie: The fault in our starts
Movie series: Tyrant
Food: Biryani rice
Color: Mustard yellow
Brand: Kylie Jenner comestics
Social Media: Instagram
Car: Hyundai Volester
Instagram page: @Instablog9ja
I skipped blogs I discovered and bloggers because I discovered so many blogs and made a few blogger friends I hard to pick a favorite.
This about all I can think of at the moment. So i’d just stop here.
For all that has encouraged me one way or the other, thank you. For my family and friends, thank you. For all of you who trusted me to design your websites, thank you. And for anyone who’s ever commented on my blog, commented on my social media platforms, sent an email or referred someone to my work… thank you. For my unique blog visitors and new visitors, you guys are amazing, and I couldn’t be happier doing what I love. Your support is overwhelming and much appreciated.
My prayer for you this year is that God gives you a plan and purpose for each day of 2017. I ask for your guidance and your direction. I ask for motivational zeal to accomplish your goals. I ask for divine grace, unmerited favours and blessings in abundant. May this year bring prosperity and joy for the rest of your life.
Have a great new year!
Be unapologetically and annoyingly happy this year. Don’t let any one dull your sparkle.
So what are some of your best things of 2016 and what are you looking forward to in 2017?